For many years my life was filled with chaos, drama, and a string of bad relationships, both romantically and platonically. It didn’t matter who came into my life, the same pattern always seemed to play out; me over giving and over sharing, which always resulted in me feeling hurt, used and abused. For years I stayed trapped in this cycle because I believed that I was just a product of bad luck. I truly felt that I was a hard-done-by victim. I was placing all of the blame